I thank God that Jesus came to heal the brokenhearted and to comfort those who mourn. Isaiah 61:3 says, He even wants to give us '' beauty instead of ashes''-to take from us all the pain and tragedy of the past and give us His joy, healing, and restoration!

    If you're like most people, you have probably dealt with hurtful situations in the past. Maybe you've been taken advantage of, abused, or lied to. Or perhaps you have been deceived, misunderstood, or cheated out of something. Many, if not most, of us have been in this painful place, and some of you may be there right now. I know one thing for certain-God does not want us to harbor bitterness or live life weighed down by the pain of the past! You can be free!
  Ephesians 4:26 AMP says, 'When angry, do not sin; do not ever let your wrath ( your exasperation....) last until the sun goes down'. In other words, God  gives us a little space of time to get control over our emotions. He wants us to make decision to forgive, lean on Him for His grace, and thank Him for victory throughout the process. When we are tempted to get angry or bitter, we need to run to God in prayer the moment we begin to feel aggravation and frustration trying to come on. He will provide us with the power to keep ourselves calm when adversity arises. (Ps. 94:13)
  He is a God of restoration, and he loves you unconditionally. Whatever you are going through today, or whatever you may have endured in the past, He is ready and willing to walk you through it and help you live a life free from bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness. Give God a chance to prove Himself faithful in your life today. It will be the best decision you have ever made.